How did you know?
Imjusthere
Registrant
Morning,
Got a question that my therapist actually encouraged me ask. How does one know their gay "naturally", or as a "result" of the abuse?
Let me explain where I'm coming from...I've been married for almost ten years. During this time I've viewed gay porn, but still attracted to my wife. But, I don't respond the way I would like consistently. But I do when I watch porn. I've experimented in college and did not like it, but I'm still attracted too men also. My wife doesn't like the idea of this and is struggling with understanding how I can watch gay porn, but say I'm still attracted too her without my body responding the way I want it to.
So, I'm here trying to learn how other male survivors knew they were gay. HELP!
IJT
Got a question that my therapist actually encouraged me ask. How does one know their gay "naturally", or as a "result" of the abuse?
Let me explain where I'm coming from...I've been married for almost ten years. During this time I've viewed gay porn, but still attracted to my wife. But, I don't respond the way I would like consistently. But I do when I watch porn. I've experimented in college and did not like it, but I'm still attracted too men also. My wife doesn't like the idea of this and is struggling with understanding how I can watch gay porn, but say I'm still attracted too her without my body responding the way I want it to.
So, I'm here trying to learn how other male survivors knew they were gay. HELP!
IJT